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I'm curious about how common it is for black women to like white… 
30th-Nov-2007 11:08 pm
I'm curious about how common it is for black women to like white guys. The fact that there's a community for it seems to indicate that it's more common than I thought, but I've never talked with a black woman about this subject before (it's a thought that's never even occurred to me). My first kiss was with a black girl. I've since dated a Brazilian girl and a white Jew, like myself. Personally, I've always been very attracted to black women, and I've met a few who seem to have been attracted to me.

I recently joined a Facebook community dedicated to black women at USF with the same question, but that was before I found this community. I'm a 20 year old Philosophy major and Computer Science major at the University of South Florida in Tampa. I make frequent trips to Lakeland, where my family lives, and Fort Lauderdale, where I grew up.

I don't want this to sound like a personal ad or anything, (since I know a lot of communities disprove of that sort've thing) but I'm interested in talking with any black women who'd be interested. I'm just as much interested though, as a former student of sociology, in the dynamics or interracial relationships when the woman is black and the man is white.
1st-Dec-2007 09:27 pm (UTC)
I dunno how much you can ead into the existence of the community, since it's not terribly active, but I would speculate that a lot of people who cross racial lines often are unsatisfied with the cultural norms that go along with it.

I find all kinds of women physically attractive. But that means nothing if their behavior and attitude isn't also amenable to me.

My first real girlfriend was Black (I was 15 at the time) but it was only over the summer. We met up again when I was 22, in college, and picked up where we left off. She ended up dating another white guy after a while.

It's interesting to reflect that some guys are attracted to Asian women and also express an attraction to Asian culture, but I don't think you get as many guys who are attracted to Black women who are really into Black culture. Although that might be because Black culture is more hostile to White men than Asian culute
14th-Dec-2007 10:29 pm (UTC)
I don't mind, talk to you about it. :) Because I've dated 2 white guys who were jerks and now I'm with white guy again. He's a keeper though.
21st-Dec-2007 05:44 am (UTC)
I love white guys and I'm just not attracted to black guys we have like zero in common. Many say I was born the wrong color my sister only dates white guys too. I'll be 20 in a month and I'm a psych major I live in ohio. Maybe we could talk sometime?
22nd-Dec-2007 12:43 am (UTC)
Definitely. I was considering majoring in psych, but there weren't many jobs in the field I'd like do you have AIM?
22nd-Dec-2007 03:21 am (UTC)
yeah I do it's heavenlyjaystar I might get a new screen name though we'll see.
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